Parenting, Caring, Counseling and Support Children. Nine Steps to More Effective Parenting · 1. Boosting Your Child's Self-Esteem · 2. Catch Kids Being Good · 3. Set Limits and Be Consistent With Your Discipline · 4. Make Time for Your Kids 5. Be a Good Role Model 6. Make Communication a Priority 7. Be Flexible and Willing to Adjust Your Parenting Style 8. Show That Your Love Is Unconditional 9. Know Your Own Needs and Limitations as a Parent